
About Aaron Bentley
I'm an ADHD coach who has lived with ADHD my whole life. I've coached more than 150 people, and I bring something no textbook can teach: I know exactly how it feels.
- Diagnosed at primary school in the 1990s
- 150+ clients coached, 30 every week
- Coaching online, UK and worldwide
From struggling to coaching
- Primary school, 1990s
An early diagnosis
I was diagnosed with ADHD when very little was known about it, and I remember it being frightening. The medication I was given sedated me, and my mum took me off it because it took away my personality. After that, I had no support at school at all.
- Teens and early twenties
Struggling to keep up
High school was hard, and work was harder. In my twenties I was assessed again and started medication that did help – but I still struggled for another ten years, moving from job to job and dealing with constant mental health challenges.
- The turning point
Deciding to change things
One day I realised nobody was coming to fix things for me. So I took the generic advice that had never worked, stripped it back and rebuilt it from an ADHD point of view.
- Two years of refining
Systems that actually work
I spent the next two years testing and refining those systems on my own life. That's when everything started to change.
- Today
Helping others do the same
I've now coached more than 150 people and work with 30 clients every week. I bring the hardest and the best parts of my own ADHD to every session.
A note on medication: it helps many people, and it helped me later on. That's a conversation for you and your doctor. My role is the practical side – the systems, habits and mindset that make daily life work.
What working with me is like
Built for ADHD brains
No neurotypical templates. Every strategy is designed around interest, energy and how your attention really works.
Completely judgement-free
Missed a task? Dropped a routine? That's information, not failure. We adjust and go again.
Small, realistic steps
You'll leave every session with one or two clear actions that fit a real week, not a 40-point plan.
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